Monday, August 31, 2009

Where Christian Singles go dating

Author: Francis K. Githinji

The world is changing, and it is not leaving any sphere of life behind. It is in transition from the world of relationships to the way people are dating and changing their way of life. Dating is such that you need to see life in a light that changes the perception you have. It is through dating that any relationship is held together and perfected beyond any measure. Christian dating sites have the best idea of making sure that Christian singles have not been left alone in the cold as people change their lives and transform the way they live.



You should never leave things about relationships out of mind even if you are a Christian since first and foremost you are a human and single for that matter. You cannot imagine the way in which you have been ignoring the things that matter in life.
From dating purposes to the way you are reacting towards other singles. The difference between a Christian single who is perusing Christian dating sites and a non believer single who might also be going through an online dating site is that the former is very limited in the chances she or he can utilize in life.

Christians are not endowed with many ways of making sure that they have changed their lives. You need to make sure that you need something that makes sense as a Christian, as well as the fact that it does not compromise your faith in any way. The way with a Christian single is that whatever they do in life they must be guided by the bible and must be in the glory of God. In fact, when it comes to relationships, wherever they might be in, whether in Christian dating sites or wherever, they must not take precedence to the word and praise of God.

It is not something that curtails and denies the Christian single the chance to have people in their lives. It is just that they must have what God have ordained and since everything is God’s, then one should seek His kingdom first and the rest shall follow. You need to have something in your life that makes you see life as it is. You need to have a person in your life for the duration you are ready, and it is so important to be yourself in life. Christian dating sites are the best places for any Christians who want to seek friendships with other members of the flock.

They are sites for Christians only, so that they can have a chance to transform their lives as they meet each other for friendships that will cement their resolves to stick to the call of Christ. Any Christian single also has his or her fears about marriage and dating relationships and it is the prerogative of the church and the single person to find a way of getting the right counsel. It will make sure they have not left the path of Christ to find men and women to date.



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Sunday, August 30, 2009

Where Christians Meet for Dating and Friendship Needs

Author: Francis K. Githinji

We all need friends in our life. We also need dating to change the position we hold on relationships. Christian dating sites have been created with the need to change the way people look at relationships and marriage. Christian singles, are also facing a lot of issues that affect every human, from relationship to romantic issues. They are all things that make love bud through the systems as it makes people love each other and start unions.



There are many things that affect Christian dating sites and determines their way with relationships. It is very important to realize what makes romance something you can't live without as you let yourself take the direction that will change you forever.

Christians also need friends and people who can help them grow in the ways of their religion as they make themselves into people who are sociable and ready for marriage. You need to determine where exactly you lack in terms of relationships so that what you need in life might come your way. Christian dating sites offer Christian singles the best avenue to make sure they are heading towards the bright direction. This direction will make them enjoy the company of Christian friends and the promises of such a social exercise. It is dating that changes all in a relationship as the attraction between the way people determined people make, interact in relationships.

There is nothing like meeting that person you share a lot of things with, and enjoy been together. More so, if the person is a Christian like you and yours is not a dating without a purpose, or a dating with only one purpose. You realize that you are able to engage in dating in a way that you get to acquire a lot from it. Christian dating sites makes Christian meet other single Christians and simplify the cases of relationships and the fetishes of their hearts. Singles are able to meet many other like minded singles who make them feel good as they change the way they look at life and everything that comes with relationships.

It is very satisfying for a Christian single to meet a person with whom; they can share the same issues about their faith.
They dedicate their devotion to God as they make their dating towards accomplishing what marriage is made up of. Christian singles have a perfect chance with Christian dating sites to start their way towards accomplishing what dating changes in a simple relationship.

It is very easy to meet single people but it's not that easy to start a relationship. There are Christian dating coaches within these sites who give you the chance to perfect your friendship into a dating interaction. This only happens as you make things change the way you look at dating and any love issues. It is very important to let yourself enjoy what makes others have strong relationships that withstand the test of time even after matrimony. The secret is held up in dating. We all need to enjoy dating as it is.



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Saturday, August 29, 2009

Online Dating for Christian Singles - Where do you start?

Author: Andy Cross

Once upon a time that was a difficult question to answer. When online dating first became the popular new way to meet people, there were no dating sites around which catered specifically for Christian Singles, let alone for people with any kind of spiritual beliefs.



Prior to the advent of the Internet, it was your local church or youth club which provided the means and facilities for Single Christians to congregate. For some, that is a tried and tested method which still works as well today as it did back then, but for a growing number of the Single Christian community, it is also a method which has too many limitations.

There is nothing wrong with the personal touch that meeting new people face-to-face provides and it's not healthy to remove visual communication altogether, far from it, the last thing we want is to become a bunch of faceless robots.

However, the Internet has advanced to such a degree that savvy programmers have produced Social Networking sites like MySpace, Facebook and Twitter to name a few, but in doing so, they have also encouraged the impersonal interaction which is now commonplace.

Obviously, Christian dating sites have been around longer than those above but the development of Web 2.0, as it's been dubbed, has contributed in no small way in making online dating the norm rather than the exception.

This is to the benefit of Single Christians everywhere, because the social limitations of the outside world I mentioned earlier, are no longer an issue and there is a more expansive reach to be utilized with online dating simply because you can now search nationwide for your ideal partner or globally if you so desire, without the need for accumulating thousands of miles in your car or by air.

Thankfully, there are fully fledged Christian dating sites too, so it is far easier for Single Christians to find one another in an environment where they can share similar values and beliefs without the fear of being judged.

It sounds easy, there's no reason why it should be difficult by the way, but there are genuine Christian dating websites around now, amongst all the fluff, that more than cater for the needs of someone who is deeply rooted in their faith and simply desires to share that with another person for the rest of their lives. You just need to know where to look.



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Andy Cross is a married Christian of 5 years, who met his wife online and is passionate about helping other Christians find future happiness in the same way. He shares thoughts, ideas and pearls of wisdom and also reviews and recommends the best Christian resources available. For more information, see http://www.singlechristiansguide.com/dating-reviews

Friday, August 28, 2009

What makes Christian dating different?

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Is there such a thing that separates Christian dating from any other types of dating? Yes, there are numerous reasons why Christian dating is different from other forms of dating especially in the world of online dating. Several differences are listed below:



1. In Christian dating, you get to meet Christian singles, Christian women and Christian girls who shares the same beliefs, values and interests with you.

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It gives you plenty of opportunities to know different singles from Christian community throughout the world that could be your Christian love or Christian marriage.

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As a part of online Christian dating environment, you are expose to numerous possibilities of finding interesting Christian ladies for Christian chat, Christian friends or Christian relationships.

4. It will broaden your horizon about Christian beliefs molding you to become a better individual in this society.

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Thursday, August 27, 2009

Christian Dating Services, your Rights and Expectations

Author: Andy Cross

Sometimes it can be tricky enough finding somebody who you get on with, far less enjoy a memorable date with them and even more difficult trying to date someone who not only ticks those boxes but also shares the same beliefs and faith as you. Thankfully, Christian dating services have been around for a number of years and exist in some way to eradicate this dilemma.



There are a myriad of reasons why people sign up for these sites. It's true for the majority that they wish to start what they hope will be the beginning of a lifetime relationship with another person, whilst the minority sign up to harvest close friendships with prayers partners or people who have similar interests and spiritual beliefs.

One obvious advantage of meeting someone through a Christian dating service is that you both have Christ's presence in your relationship, which strengthens your unity with each other as well as doing wonders for your faith in Jesus. From a Christian perspective, that detail in itself is adequate enough for joining these sites.

You mostly get the choice of joining free websites or paid ones which give you a free trial for the first 10 days or so. You could argue that you only get what you pay for, thus if something is always free, then what does that represent for the kind of service they offer?

Other things to take into account are whether the site protects your privacy and safety. It is wise to avoid sites which ask you to give your real name, home address or other personal details for the whole world to see.

Positive signs to look out for are when sites pre-screen their members, which assures you that you're communicating with a real person. Also, see if they have additional information such as, dating advice and general safeguards, like getting to know the person a little better before agreeing to meet up for the first time and ensuring you select a public place or tell a friend where you're going.

All dating services have a duty towards their members and Christian dating services especially, but not exclusively, should set an example of care for the rest to follow. After all, you are paying them to supply you with a service and their part of the deal should be to consider your welfare, at least as far as they can.



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Andy Cross is an author, commentator and enthusiast about Christian dating. He met his wife of 5 years online through a similar service and is dedicated to helping Single Christians find happiness by the same method. For more information, visit http://singlechristiansguide.com/dating-reviews.

Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Adventures in Christian Dating - The Big Christian Dating Site Test

Author: Rosemary Gardner

Have you ever run across one of those dating service review websites? I don't know about you, but I just don't get much from them. Oh sure, they give you a run down on all the features of the sites and so on, but they're all pretty much the same and I am left wondering which one to pick. What do I do? Flip a coin?



So I decided to run a very unscientific test. After much persuasion I was able to arrange for my two sisters (Amy and Beth), my brother (Robert), and my aunt (Debbie) to join me in a 4-week round-robin extravaganza of Christian dating.

Each of us was to join the following 5 Christian dating websites for 1 month: Big Church, Christian Cafe, Christian Mingle, Metrodate, and Matchmaker. We were each to go on 3 dates per dating site and score the date (1 - 10) according to a single criterion: would we want to continue dating that person?

This seemed like the ultimate question. I mean who cares how cool the chat room is or how many activities the site organizes or any of that stuff. The whole purpose for using a dating site is to meet fun and attractive new people. People we'd actually like to go on dating regularly.

My siblings and I are aged 20 - 25. My aunt Debbie is 41.
Finding dates at the various sites was not a problem at all. And so it began, 15 dates in 4 weeks.

I could probably write a book about our experiences. Each date had it's elements of humor, confusion, misunderstanding, irritation, and surprise. Some were boring. Some bordered on exhilarating. All of us (except for Beth - who is very discriminating and very hard to please) met someone who we continue to date to this day. That surprised me.

The candidates were all generally well-mannered, presentable, attractive, and polite. As the dating continued throughout the month I knew how my own scoring was going and that one site in particular seemed to be dominating. This also surprised me because as I said, all the sites looked the same to me and all the candidates seemed the same
at first blush. I expected a fairly even distribution but I was not getting that.

When the month was over we met at the kitchen table to tally our
results:

Big Church 73
Christian Cafe 58
Christian Mingle 117
Metrodate 62
Matchmaker 68

Why did the results end up this way? I have no freaking idea.
This is obviously a relatively small sample size. But as I said, I was not expecting to see this. I am certain that there are people every day who do find what they're looking for at each and every one of these sites. This was just my small real-world test and all of us are happy that we went through with it (except for Beth who remains - very hard to please).



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Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Christian Community and Christian Dating

Author: Jamie Hanson

Christian dating does not have to be as difficult as you might think when you take advantage of an online Christian community.



It really is everything any Christian looking to date could ask for because everyone you meet shares the same values and morals as you do. Never again will you feel the need to defend your religious beliefs on a date because you will be discussing them freely and openly instead. When you use a traditional online dating service, it will take much longer to find people who share your religious beliefs. You can bypass all the hassle when you use a Christian site from the start.


You will find that your Christian dating will be more meaningful and moral when you use the help of a Christian dating site. Your religious beliefs are important to you because they make you who you are. They should not be passed over or hidden during a relationship because you do not want to offend anyone. You should be able to share those beliefs with the person you love.
They should be able to do the same. The main reason this is possible is because the people you will find are online because they believe religious beliefs should play a huge part in a relationship.

You might find it refreshing that there is a Christian community online designed for Christian dating in this day and age. So many young people do not put the same emphasis on their faith as people did years ago. This site proves that is not the case for everyone. You still can be a young and modern individual while believing that religion should be the cornerstone of your relationship. You do not have to live your life thinking that there is no one else out there who thinks religion should play a part in your relationship.

Many people have found using a Christian community helpful in starting a meaningful Christian dating experience for them. They did not have to waste time searching for people who did not scoff at their belief that religion should be in the forefront of a relationship because everyone on these sites share that belief. In today's fast paced world, you might find that using a Christian community is the best way to find someone you can spend the rest of your life with.



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Monday, August 24, 2009

Features of a Good Online Christian Dating Website

Author: Nico Kurniawan

With the online world awash with so many Christian Dating websites , there are certain unscrupulous people who are using this opportunity to cheat Christians off their hard earned money. Whereas Christian Dating Websites provide a good opportunity to meet honest Single Christians, not all of these sites are worth the hype.



Lets explore certain features you should look for in a good Christian Dating Website. These tips will come in handy, whether you want to join a Christian Dating Website or you want to start your own Christian Dating Website .

1. An excellent Christian Dating website will offer free trial membership prior to paid membership. With your free membership, you should be able to browse for single Christians looking for partners. You should be able to see that their profiles are still active. Its unfortunate that some Christian Dating Websites only offer paid membership and yet most of their profiles are not active.

2. You should avoid Christian Dating websites which dont have a search and match database functionality .You should have the option of narrowing your search to persons who share your own personal beliefs and Christian values.

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Stay clear off Christian Dating Websites that cant guarantee your privacy. There are some Christian Dating Websites that dont give you complete control over your name, email address, etc. A good Christian Dating website should have an inbuilt chat room.
This helps you stay anonymous while exchanging conversation with other singles. When it comes to privacy, you should check their privacy policy to make sure that your personal information is not being sold to third party websites.

4. A good Christian Dating website should have positive reviews. A Christian Dating website without happy customers should be avoided at all costs.

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Friday, August 21, 2009

Christian Mingle Online Dating

Author: Tony Braithwaite

Christian Mingle for dating online now has hundreds of thousands of single Christians. This online community was created for Christian singles to find friends for romance or marriage.



You van view online photographs of the thousands of new members joining every day. It's not just dating though that bring people to this site it is a Christian community where you can find lots of singles that share your values and love for God in Christ. Here you can build strong relationships with other Christian single people. You will find Christian singles in your own area. Join Here


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There are lots of great features when you join - Bible verse of the day, chat rooms, message boards, instant messenger and search the bible. Join today and you will soon be meeting like-minded Christian people.

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Thursday, August 20, 2009

Tips For Christian Online Dating

Author: Breana Marcline

The internet has become an incredible tool for the dating world. However, because it has become so big some there are a lot of dating services that cater to specific people or groups of people. One of the largest groups out there is the christian online dating scene, but even though you are on a Christian site does not mean you don't need to take some precautions.

1. Approach each correspondences with caution. Dating online offers easy ways for people to lie and be deceitful and christian sites are just like any other site out there. The biggest caution you can take is to keep personal information to yourself. Do not give out your address or phone number to someone through an email.

2. Your first meeting should be public and stay public. So meet at a restaurant, go miniature golfing, ice skating or anything else that there will be a lot of people. Then the most important thing is to stay there. Do not take them up on an offer to go back to their place for coffee, or even go to another location in the same vehicle. You do not know this person yet so be careful. These precautions are usually only necessary for the first 2 or 3 dates and then after that you can enjoy doing things a little more privately. If you are exceptionally worried then you may also consider telling a friend or family member where and when you are going and make plans to check in with them at a certain time.

3. If you feel someone is pushing you too hard or asking questions they shouldn't then do not feel bad to tell them, sometimes they may not realize it and stop. Otherwise they may get offended or make you feel guilty and push harder, if this is the case then do NOT feel bad to stop contact with them. Your participating in christian online dating to have fun and meet people you will enjoy, not to be badgered and feel guilty for being safe.

4. When you choose a photo for christian online dating you want to choose one that shows who you are. You do not need one that is sexy and provocative, it may end up sending the wrong impression and you will probably receive emails from guys that you wouldn't want to date.

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If you want to take an extra step then I would get a separate email account for all your christian online dating. This way if you get someone harassing you then you can block them or even just stop using the email account. This will also keep dating emails separate from personal or work emails.

6. Be honest. Just like you are hoping that they are being honest with you, you should be honest with them. Plus if you lied about something but end up liking the guy and things start getting serious, you will eventually have to reveal the lie and you just might ruin what you could of had.


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